In our everyday living, people got hurt by means of words or actions. It could be in a form of criticizing someone or could be a form that is inappropriate to another individual. Forgiveness is a hard step to take, but the one who is not open to do it, normally the one who suffers. Forgiveness is an act done by a person in which this particular person is a victim of, feeling of attitude regarding an offense through means of letting go of the negative emotions and resentfulness but instead an acceptance of reconciliation and gratitude.
For instance like the religion, forgiveness is a very well-known topic to all Christians. Such act is not as easy as it was said. Individual has this inner self that withdraw from such act to maintain such preservation instinct of being damaged. As it was clearly stated in the bible, forgiveness can be done according to God’s will. People choose to forgive out of trust. As for its God rule to and his desire, people decide on to let off. Forgiveness is takes longer time than expected or for some cases may require a lifetime decision for it to be possible. In some cases, prayer is one of the ways to give forgiveness. People tend to have enlightenment and not to look on the failure that was done. But instead, realizing the new light and an open heart to let go of hatred.
Forgiving a person who have done something wrong to you can lead to a new light as it creates harmonious relationships and a peaceful environment. Not allowing yourself to forgive might lead to serious effect. Due to anger and bitterness, people tend to feel disheartened and miserable. People should know the importance of forgiveness for them without difficulty embrace the thoughts. One should know how to reflect back and analyzed the situation clearly and how it affects your personal life, physically, emotionally and mentally. Be open to forgive people who affronted you. Avoid allowing yourself to be a casualty of affronting the other person in any situation of your life. It is very necessary to carefully assess the situation who causes and know the exact reason why the need to give forgiveness. Forgiveness should be done out of willingness and with respect. If one does not want to forgive just continue to wave around and move on with your own life.